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"I Want To Get My Ex Back But They Have Started Dating Again"
If you find yourself in this position do not panic. It may seem that all hope is lost and that the chapter in your relationship together has closed. I am here to tell you that rebound relationships rarely ever work. Of course it depends on how long ago you split up with your ex, but generally speaking they spell failure and can in fact work in your favour!
When you find out that your ex has started seeing someone new it can be a very upsetting time, especially if you were in the process of trying to get them back. Do not be disappointed, it only means that it will take a little longer for them to see sense and start to miss you.
Your strategy for getting them back will now need to be slightly different as there is another party involved.
Is It Possible To Win Your Ex Back If They Are Dating Again?
There is every chance that you can get your ex back again if they are dating again, no matter how solid or happy their relationship can appear on the outside, there are things that you can do to improve your chances. Please bear in mind that we do not advocate trying to split up your ex's new relationship, this is a definite no no and will only make it impossible for you two ever to get back together in the future. You have to do things properly.
You would be surprised how quickly idle gossip can back to your ex and make them think of you as jealous and petty. You do not want this to happen at any cost. You must remember that the way your ex perceives you is your most effective weapon here. Maintain a sense of maturity and integrity and you will rise in your ex's estimation. If your ex respects and trusts you this is a huge advantage that you will have over their new girlfriend or boyfriend. Remember this, I will repeat it again because this is the key to getting your ex back:
Do not act jealously or bad mouth your ex's new relationship
Your Ex Probably Does Still Have Some Kind Of Feelings For You
It is human nature to still care for our ex's and remember why we fell in love with them in the first place. There are strong emotional bonds of attachment that you have built up with your ex over the months and years you have been together. You both know each other inside out, something that cannot be said of their new boyfriend or girlfriend. All that you have to do is subtlely encourage these deep feelings and memories to come to the surface again. That is the key, you do not force things or it will backfire on you. By simply being the person that you are and that they trust can work in itself, so do not go over the top in trying to attract them again, it will become glaringly obvious to them what you are trying to do.
You see, in the throws of a new relationship there is excitement as everything is new. This will soon wear off and the deeper bonds that your ex shared with you will soon be missed when they realize that they cannot build these bonds quickly with their new relationship.
In fact, in your ex's head they will constantly be comparing their new boyfriend or girlfriend to you, even if they don't mean to do it. It is a natural thing to compare your new boyfriend or girlfriend to your ex.
Guess who usually comes out on top?
That's right! You do. It is almost impossible for your ex's new boyfriend or girlfriend to compete with the memories that you have created together, not the mention the trust and bonds. Your ex will subconsciously be thinking about how much they miss your little idiosyncrasies, the way you were together and memories of your time together will slip into their heads. So you see, it is a lot easier to get your ex back than you may think. The reality is that your ex's new relationship will do you a huge favour in the end, if you play it correctly. I know that it may sound counter intuitive, but by giving them your blessing and leaving them to it, you are pulling them back to you in ways that you never even knew existed.
How To Make Your Ex Fall In Love With You Again
All that you have to do is remind your ex how things were at the beginning of your relationship. By bringing up certain memories, preferably humorous ones, you will make your ex remember how good it used to be. They will then compare it to their current relationship in their head and come to their own conclusions. It is important that you do not go over the top here. Constantly bringing up the past will only make your ex certain that you still have feelings for them and think that you want them back again, leading to mistrust. If you can, come at it from a friend perspective. This is why talking about funny things that happened, rather than romantic examples, will work a lot better.
You must know that those feelings are not dead to either of you, even if they are buried deep down in your ex, they can bubble up to the surface again if you are patient. When you learn exactly what to do, the tricks to use for optimum results and when to use them, you will get back with your ex a lot sooner than you think is possible.
The law of attraction is a powerful thing. If you still have feelings for your ex you are living proof that feelings do not die overnight. Even if it seems that your ex has moved on with their new mate, you have one huge advantage over them - your history together. Never underestimate how powerful and comforting happy memories are.
If your ex is demonstrating any of the above then they are still attached to you and care what you think. Watch out carefully for these things as it will give you a clue about your chances and help you plan the next stage of reconciling with your ex.
Do not despair. Your ex is probably very conscious of exactly what they say around you, especially since they are dating someone new and have to be careful. There are effective techniques that you can use once you learn them that will pull your ex back to you. You just have to be slightly more patient if your ex is trying their utmost to bury these feelings and not make them apparent to you.
How To Get Your Ex Back From Someone Else
The normal amount of time that a rebound relationship will last is 4-8 weeks. If you think that you cannot wait this out then there are ways that you can speed the process up. In no way should you try and steal your boyfriend back as this will only be glaringly obvious. The right strategies are required during this time if you are to make them see that you are a much better option the person they are currently dating.
Pulling Your Ex Back To You...Learn The Tricks
As this is a unique break up situation you will need to tackle it differently than if you were just hoping to get your ex back. You need to be patient with what you do and it is a good idea to wait it out so that you do not seems sneaky. There are lots of things that you should be doing behind the scenes though when your ex in is their rebound relationship. Being proactive during this time will make it a lot more likely that your ex will come running back to you once their relationship has ended.
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